Because the hair you wear deserves more than upkeep, it deserves devotion.
Despite the common narrative, hair extensions are more than just added length or volume. They’re a quiet act of self-investment, a way to reclaim confidence, and oftentimes, the chapter that feels most like you.
Whether you’ve chosen hand-tied hair extensions to fill in thinning spots, add inches, or simply feel more at home in your hair – one thing is true: they’re not a quick fix, they’re a long-term love story.
And like any great love story, they flourish with care, intention, and a little tenderness.
Overwhelmed with making your mane the muse for the long haul? Don’t be – you’re in the right place. I’m here to catch you in your luxury extension maintenance care that is not only simple, but sustainable!
Here are 9 ways to pour that love back into your locks, so your extensions can stay soft, seamless, and stunning, appointment after appointment.
1. Brush with Intention, Not Aggression
Start from the ends and gently work your way up using an extension-safe brush (looped bristles or soft boar hair are best). Hold the hair at the base to avoid pulling on the wefts. Think of it less like detangling and more like a daily ritual of connection.
2. Sleep with Grace (and a Silk Scrunchie)
Tossing and turning? Your hair feels it, too. Before bed, braid your extensions loosely or secure them in a low ponytail with a silk or satin scrunchie. Swap your cotton pillowcase for silk to reduce friction and keep your strands smoother and shinier overnight.
3. Cleanse with Care
Extensions don’t produce natural oils, so overwashing can dry them out fast. Aim to shampoo 1–2 times per week with a sulfate-free formula, focusing on the scalp. Let the lather gently run through your ends rather than scrubbing them.
4. Condition Like It’s a Love Language
Mid-length to ends is where your conditioner belongs, never at the root. Use a hydrating, extension-safe conditioner and let it sit for a few minutes. Bonus points for a weekly deep-conditioning mask to restore softness and shine.
5. Dry Gently – But Fully
Never go to bed with wet extensions. Ever. After showering, gently towel-dry with a microfiber wrap and blow-dry the base area completely. You can let the mids and ends air-dry if you like a natural texture—but your roots? They need to be dry to avoid matting or mildew.
6. Protect Before You Heat
Heat styling is totally allowed (because who doesn’t want to dress up those long locks), but only with protection. Use a thermal protectant spray every time you curl, flat iron, or blow-dry. Your extensions are beautiful, but they won’t bounce back from heat damage the way your natural hair might.
7. Keep Oil on the Ends, Not the Wefts
A lightweight oil can be magic for dry ends, just make sure to avoid applying it near the invisible beads or bonds. Concentrate on the mid-strand and ends only to nourish without slipping your extensions loose.
8. Know When It’s Time for a Move-Up
Most hand-tied extensions need to be moved up every 6–8 weeks. Waiting too long can cause tension or breakage. Trust me – it’s not high-maintenance, it’s just like a good relationship – better when you stay in rhythm.
9. Invest in Rest
Extensions (like you) thrive with rest and routine. Avoid chlorine, saltwater, and over-styling when you can. Schedule a quiet day every week where your hair gets to simply be lived-in – braided, bare, or blown out for you alone.
In the End, It’s Not Just Hair – It’s a Home
Your extensions aren’t an accessory. They’re part of your identity. A wearable confidence. A quiet companion in the chaos of your day-to-day.
Pour love into them, and they’ll love you back day after day, wash after wash, season after season.
Because your hair deserves to feel as steady and cared for as the woman wearing it.
I’m Emily, a Casper Wyoming hair stylist and balayage color specialist, and I take a holistic approach to hair extensions. Whether this is your first time investing in extensions or you’re being called back; I’d love to guide you through blending story and style into every strand.
Please Book an Extension Consultation to answer any questions you may have, chat through the process, and schedule your appointment.
